Did you know that it is possible to find your balance point, reconciling productivity, and happiness through the management of time and emotions? This is the premise of the book "The Sweet Spot", written by Christine Carter.
According to the author, to achieve significant changes in your personal and professional life, it is necessary to build habits, prioritize activities, and create real and healthy connections.
Also, she explains the importance of moderation and self-control, and how they influence the path to success.
Do you want to know more? Keep reading this summary!
The book "The Sweet Spot: How to Accomplish More by Doing Less" was written by Christine Carter and published in 2015, by Ballantine Books.
It consists of 5 parts and 10 interesting chapters that will take you to the level of achievements, successes, and victories in a short time.
Christine Carter is a writer, sociologist, researcher at UC Berkeley's Greater Good Science Center, and a specialist in management, leadership, and productivity lectures.
She has had many publications in major newspapers, such as The New York Times, Los Angeles Times, USA Today, and Chicago Tribune.
Her work has already earned two nominations from the American Sociological Association and an award from the Council of Contemporary Families.
The book "The Sweet Spot" is recommended for professionals who need to relearn the secret of success, the path of victory, and wish to reach the goal of making their dreams come true.
Key points that ensure the rise of business, increased productivity, and significant drivers of success are cited throughout the book "The Sweet Spot".
Among them, we can mention:
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In the modern world, we know that daily chores, commitments, work, and personal life are intrinsic factors of our routine and that, most of the time, we don't know how to control them.
But what to do, anyway? Rest!
The first step in finding balance is to appreciate rest.
Contemporaneity has made us think that, if we are not constantly busy, we are not productive in performing our activities. But there is the mistake!
The author Christine Carter reports, in the book "The Sweet Spot", the many problems that the absence of short breaks can cause in an individual's life. For example, severe symptoms of anxiety, mood deterioration and change in metabolism.
What we really need to understand is that we are not robots. Our body obeys cycles we need to follow. Otherwise, the path to happiness, success, and creativity will be further and further away.
They are called circadians and ultradians.
According to the book "The Sweet Spot", the circadian biological rhythm is entirely related to sleep hormones, in which within 24 hours we sleep and wake up in a totally predictable circuit.
The ultradian is directly related to productivity. Interesting, isn't it?
Well, this period is around 90 to 120 minutes and is repeated during our day. For example, heart rate, appetite, blood circulation, and mental health.
Now, do you think your productivity and efficiency are constant in that time interval?
This is the reason for the growing rate of stress, burnout and overload in work environments. In fact, there are already proven cases of death due to overload of tasks.
What do you think about using the autopilot of your mind to your advantage?
Understand that you can increase your personal and professional performance by adjusting your unconscious through habits.
The author Christine Carter explains that, unlike conscious thinking, our habits are in a region of the brain that is responsible for saving energy, causing less overhead and processing our information much faster.
And how can you do this?
For the formation of a habit, it is necessary to use three factors:
The trigger can be explained as a driver of something, an emotion, an aroma, a sound, or a sensation, for example.
Routine is the path that will lead you to obey the desired habit. Therefore, the more you comply with the routine previously established, the easier it will be to fix the habit.
The reward, in turn, helps in the continuity of the habit. When we are successful at the end of some activity, it is natural to have a well-known sense of accomplishment or that sense of achievement/victory over that task. This is the intrinsic reward acting on us.
As indicated by the author Christine Carter in her book "The Sweet Spot", the intrinsic reward is more effective than positive material reinforcement. Despite being less rewarding, the effect of triumph is immediate and the feeling of success remains for much longer.
One of the main villains responsible for our emotional imbalance is the feeling of burnout.
This feeling of exhaustion occurs through the union of work overload with the feeling of fear of failure, or not being sufficient for a certain activity.
If you, the reader, are looking for the balance point, you need to manage your life, so that your daily activities are not a burden for you.
Extreme tiredness directly affects our cognitive ability precisely because it overloads the brain and impedes the skills necessary for daily life.
The author Christine Carter mentions that this type of exhaustion can be classified as "cognitive overload". This is because it influences our ability to create, organize, solve problems, and make decisions.
Here are some tips presented in the book "The Sweet Spot" for you to organize your life and get around this problem once and for all:
If you are one of those people who want to do everything at the same time to save a few minutes at the end of the day, stop! You are doing it wrong.
Contrary to what many people think, doing too many activities simultaneously means losing energy, attention, focus, and performance. Also, it drastically decreases the chances of any type of productivity.
Once again, the focus here is the priority.
In the book "The Sweet Spot", the author Christine Carter advises to define your most important activities and do one at a time. In the end, you will find that the effort for each was much less than expected.
It may be that, in this change of pace, you find yourself having plenty of time at the end of the day, and it is very common for people to feel guilty about this situation.
Don't blame yourself. What actually happened was a reorganization of your schedule. You stopped piling up activities and started managing your time, wasting less time and having more quality of life.
Humanity was not born to live alone. Understand that the bonds created are not only necessary for our personal satisfaction, but directly reflect on our professional life.
Contact is necessary for society, and its benefits transcend any mere explanation.
The author Christine Carter states in the book "The Sweet Spot" that strengthening relationships and creating new bonds is entirely related to a happier, healthier, more successful, and more peaceful life.
The secret of success is love. Happiness and wisdom find a place in people who are interrelated. The feeling of belonging and acceptance reflects directly on good performance and productivity in the work environment.
Did you know that when there is effective communication between two people, there is also a marriage between them?
To reach the equilibrium point, there must be an approximation of the positive energies. Positive energies can come to us through good deeds and effective connections between people.
Resonance means amplifying. This happens through social contacts and when we share emotions with each other.
As explained in the book "The Sweet Spot", when there is a connection of people, there is also a synchronism of brain activity, thus being known as neuronal marriage.
Understand that this synchrony will reflect not only on emotions, but also on heartbeat, behavior, and body language.
Positive amplification is highly beneficial to our emotional health. It is one of the main reasons that define a victorious individual in all areas of life.
Christine Carter emphasizes the importance of being strong in the face of life's obstacles. She explains that we need to develop our tolerance skills so that we can achieve self-control faster, easier, and efficiently.
Developing mastery is the key to the intersection of strength and tranquility.
Mastery can be explained as the skill, competence, and ease of performing a designated activity.
When we do an activity with mastery, it doesn't take so much effort to do it. Therefore, we can execute it by autopilot, saving energy, avoiding wear, and postponing stress.
Despite the difficulty of being acquired, mastery can be achieved through determination, practice, and the necessary rest, with the promise of future tranquility and quality of life.
Understand that the secret of success is linked to:
Despite all the dedication necessary for the arrival of triumph, pursuing perfectionism is not the best way.
According to the book "The Sweet Spot", perfectionism brings the continuous feeling of discontent, always feeding negative emotions through fear, failure, and feeling of helplessness.
Also, learn that, in order to achieve the desired victory, your attention needs to be focused on the journey by building the habit of analyzing choices, creating situations, and planning decisions.
In the book "Winning", Jack Welch explains that we must always seek quality in our professional life. If you are not satisfied with your job, find one that provides enthusiasm in your career, it is very important that you don't settle and leave the comfort zone.
But, when looking for a job, analyze the company as a whole: its team, tasks, salary, career plan, and more. And when starting a new job, try to exceed all expectations, always do your best.
In "15 Secrets Successful People Know About Time Management", the author Kevin Kruse explains that most business owners adopt a morning routine to reenergize themselves physically and mentally. They recharge with plenty of water, healthy food, and exercise.
Finally, the author Nir Eyal in his work "Hooked" reports that triggers stir up behavior. They are suggestions telling people how to act. Advertising capitalizes on these motivators.
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